Hi! I’m Michelle Hy. I am a second generation Asian-American, the daughter of Chinese and Taiwanese immigrants, born and raised in Portland, Oregon. I have been practicing non-monogamy since 2012 and am cultivating a space on this little corner of the internet that helps people question mononormativity, destigmatizes polyamory, and helps make it more accessible and viable — especially for BIPOC and other largely underrepresented groups in non-monogamy communities. I strongly believe that the personal is political and that because relationships do not exist in a vacuum, it is important to discuss non-monogamy from an intersectional lens rather than simply trod out the same advice about jealousy, metamours, etc. time and time again.